Ever been caught in the crossfire of what your heart wants, and what your logical mind says?

Here's the way out.

We've all been there—caught in the crossfire of conflicting desires.

On one side, your heart yearns for something, whether it's a dream job, a loving relationship, or a daring adventure. On the other side, your logical mind chimes in with doubts, fears, and practical considerations. It can be a battle of epic proportions, leaving you feeling stuck and torn.

So, how can you navigate this internal tug-of-war and find a way out?
Let's explore some strategies to help you harmonize your heart's desires with your logical mind.

1. Understand the Roles of Your Heart and Mind

To find balance, it's essential to understand the roles of your heart and your logical mind. Your heart is the seat of your emotions, passions, and intuition. It guides you toward what brings you joy and fulfillment. On the other hand, your logical mind is responsible for analyzing situations,...

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Have you ever manifested something, then decided it's not what you really want? Maybe even ends up being the total opposite of what you what? 

When I see this happen, people often feel like they are unable to make "the right" decision (present company included) and they end up sticking around a situation a little too long.

Guilt, self-judgement, lack of faith, fear- all the makings for some serious blocked energy btw. 

The line of thinking is usually something like: "I manifested it, I better stick it out." 
Or if it's happened a time or two (or twenty) before, you might also think something like: "I manifest what I want, and then I don't want it. I can't trust myself to make decisions anymore." 

But if we zoom way out and we tune into the higher perspective- there was still a reason, a code, a lesson, a download, a perspective shift, available to you within that manifestation you created. 

To keep the manifestation...

The Path of The Spider
Conscious Creation- Building the magical life we TRULY desire.
An Animal Spirit & Archetype to work with for Manifestation

Key Energy:  Creativity & The Weaving Of Fate  

Spider first started coming into my awareness about two years ago when Tracey and I were doing Animal Spirit Readings. 

We were pulling spider as one of the animal messengers for almost every single person who signed up for a reading! 

The message of being a conscious creator and weaving your own reality came up reading after reading. 

I have invited spider to be a part of my totem ever since. 

Do I like spiders in real life? No I do not. I try to make nice with them as best I can, because I truly do appreciate them as a messenger and as an archetype of a Reality Weaver. 

You can find some fascinating lore about the spider. In India Spider is associated with the weaver of illusion. (This makes me think of the...

I just received a nice little download from spirit the moment I sat down to do some reality writing/manifesting.

The information in this blog contains some of the downloads, mindset work, and information from spirit (my manifesting guides as I like to call them) from the last year or two. 

If you are ready to think a little deeper, a little bigger, and get some new perspective read on! I go down these manifesting rabbit holes often, and I always find them to be quite transformative and abundant! 

A I was writing about my dream life, I was thinking about the subconscious fears we carry when it comes to major up-levels in our life. The fears that come up when we think about those really big dreams. The dreams and goals that feel so unattainable, even though we can't help but continue to want it anyway.
The dreams that sometimes have you feeling trapped because you want it so bad, but it feels so far off. So unavailable. 

But you just can't stop...

Whenever there is something you want to change- a belief, your mindset, patterns, behaviors, toxic relationships, abundance levels- whatever it may be, that can be a very daunting task.

We start with a nice jump start of motivation, and then programming, life, and the mundane get in the way, and we find ourselves right back in our old pattern/mindset/habit/lack. 

Then we often add a shadow layer to that by adding on shame for not changing the thing. For not being different than you were two days ago.

I have found the key ingredient that helps me to keep the manifesting/intention train moving anytime I want to change a pattern or a belief.

I first start with calling in and manifesting the MOTIVATION to change the thing. I call in the sacred self-discipline.
Because let’s face it, nobody can make these changes for us. 

No one can complete our manifestations for us. 

Change requires discipline- but I am not always a huge fan of that word. It reminds...

MANIFESTING TIP #5  DESIRE MINING

DESIRE MINING

If you are just trying to manifest money, and you aren't tuning in deeper to your truest desires, then you are going to find it difficult to manifest more money.

But, if you are willing to put some time and energy into tuning into what you TRULY desire to FEEL from all this money- then you will find your manifestations come to you much more effortlessly, and in such divine ways.

What feelings are you trying to buy with this manifestation of money?

Keep digging past all the "don't wants", all the lack you are trying to buy your way out of, and don't stop until you strike gold in the form of discovering your soul desires.

Is this sometimes a journey? Yes 

However, it's a very important part of the journey that a lot of us try to skip, by just defaulting to ask for more money.

"If I have more money, I can just buy my way to happiness."

If there is no desire behind the manifestation, then it's going...

A channeled message and activation from a team of spirit, including my Grandpa who is one of my most favorite spirit allies! He  seems to show up at just the right time when you need a loving butt kick or activation.  

You can listen to the message in the included audio, or you can ready the activation below if that's more your style. (I get a lot of activation from the written word, and maybe some of you do too!). 

YOU HAVE THE KEY

You are not stuck like you think you are. 

Just how you put so much effort into your survival, why do you not put that same discipline, practice, energy, and effort into thriving? 

It's a transfer of energy. 
It's a transfer of focus. 

Look out your current life window. 

Observe yourself now. 

What do you see? 

What do you feel when you wake up in the morning? 
Where do your thoughts go?
When you are getting ready, setting the tone for the day- what is that tone? 
When you are commuting to work,...

 The word manifest, or law of attraction methods have been thrown around the spiritual and metaphysical community often. 

But there is something that is missing in much of this teaching. 

Without the missing tools, you may even feel more shame than abundance when using methods like the law of attraction. 

I’ve seen some spiritual teachers even tell you to write down your affirmations 55 times five days a week…. And trust me I’ve tried ALL THE THINGS.  

Let's be real here; If you are missing the boat on the mindset work, writing your affirmations down 55 times a day is just going to leave you feeling like crap. Your mind and thoughts are going to counteract your affirmations with every word you write. 

Then you start thinking something is wrong with you, or that manifesting won’t work for you. 

And that’s simply not true. And I’d hate for you to give up on...

MANIFESTING TIP #4:  THE POWER OF WRITING YOUR REALITY

I just went through some sh**, so you may want to listen up for this one.
This is also one of my top go-to manifesting activities. 

REALITY WRITING

A few years ago, as I was learning ALL the things about manifesting, I discovered a lot of outward activity you can do to support your manifesting. 

Reality Writing was one of my favorite manifesting activities, because it also covered the mindset work- which is Manifesting Ingredient NUMBER ONE. 

My version of reality writing is to write down everything I desire to experience as an “I AM” statement, and as “THIS IS DONE.” 

On any given day you will find statements like the following in my reality writing journal:

Everything works in my favor no matter what.
I get treated like a VIP everywhere I go.
People love to upgrade me and treat me well, and they enjoy having me around.  

I’ve been writing these two...

MANIFESTING TIP #3:  SANCTUARY
Ready for the third  ingredient to my manifesting potion?
This is another main ingredient, and works side by side with Manifesting Tip #2- POSSIBILITY.  

SANCTUARY

Specifically sanctuary of the mind. (Hint: Bringing the tools together, when we start to become intentional with our thought and energy currency, and we start to  bring in possibility for our manifestations, we are already beginning to grid sanctuary space). 

If you want to boost and accelerate your manifestations, creating a sanctuary in your mind is a sure way to do that. 

To create sanctuary of mind means to: 

• Do the shadow work around anything standing in the way of allowing the manifestation to take place. Common shadows will be around abundance, deservingness, receiving, possibility. 
• Step into faith (and re-step into it again and again) that your manifestation is not only possible and available, but is already...